What I like...

Here I am swamped at work but all i want to do is write about me.. selfish i know, but it helps me find my focus, my balance....

So what do I like: Women, fast cars and money.........

In all seriousness though, like all red blooded men I do love women. What kind of women I like? Most would start with big boobs, tight ass, long legs, not me. I like smart women first, then how they look second. I used to know a girl, nice legs, nice chest, no brains... 5 minutes into a conversation all i wanted was to run. So i like them smart, then i care about the looks. I know most wont believe me, but its true, sides its my blog so go bugger off (I have been watching lots of BBS shows lately so starting to pick up on the lingo)

What else do I like?

I like logic, I think any and all arguments, discussions, disagreements can, and should be resolved in quiet, logical manner. Once volume level goes up I get defensive and years of avoidance that I learned from my mother kick in and I clam up. All i want to do is stop whats going on and to get a way. Sun Tzu would say that when you attack an enemy make sure you leave them a path to retreat. If you do not they will fight with a x10 resolve. The same with me, if you start yelling at me and dont give me a way out I will strike out. Not physically, its not as effective, but verbally. Have i dont this before? Oh yes, during oh so many arguments I had with my wife, in order to end I would find one of the many points I could push and push hard until she would back of. Did it ever make me feel good? Nope. (note to self: talk to the therapist about this)

Cars? nah just as long as it gets me from point A to point B.

Friends: I dont have many, but the ones I do have are the ones that I know that i can call at any time and the only response would be "i am on the way". Those are my friends and I would not trade them for the world. I also know that once this is done and settled they will be the only ones who will stand by me.

What else do I like...

Simplicity... I like when things are simple. I am network admin, I deal with network security, disaster recovery. My job is to plan for the worst, to analyze all possible points of failure. So when I come home I want things simple. To cuddle on the couch, watch TV, talk about each others day with her head on my shoulder, have sex, cook dinner, eat dinner, clean up after. What I do not want is to come home and have to watch every word I saw cause it might be considered as an attack, or what else. Simple, quiet, pleasant.